1) Listen to your lawyer. 2) Listen to your heart. 3) If necessary, replace lawyer, go to 1)
Dude, after your "convo" with wife, this is a fight you MUST fight. Even if you lose, if you go down swinging, your children will remember that somebody stood up for them. Somebody thought that they were important. You take care of you and gird your loins for battle. If you fight for your children and they know that all you wanted was a healthy life for them, you CAN'T lose.
I wish somebody had felt that way during my parents' divorce 30 years ago.
You have no way of controlling what the judge does. You control *you*. Your children will never forget that you fought for them.
The armor is on. The destrier is saddled. Lower your lance, 40. The thunder of your charge will echo throughout their life.
SpinFree, who simultaneously wishes every battle in life was this clear-cut and is glad that they aren't because those that are suck
Geez, 40...you have one of the more extreme cases here. Maybe you can get a court-ordered psychological evaluation. How can you let someone you barely know even near your children??!!
Already tried that the judge would not sign it
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
Lol it's kind of funny but the stbex was all defiant on the phone yesterday. Then last night when I picked the kids up she's all fake smiles, I think she may be a little worried right now. And it's as if it's magic the phone started working last night. I bet money it quits working tomorrow. On a funny note Sunday night I took pics of om7 truck parked at my house when the kids were home. D-10 saw a camera flash when she was in bed and went to tell mom but moms door was locked. He left about 5 minutes after I took pics so I guess I interrupted their fun.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
Sunday nights just suck. There is nothing in the world harder than taking your kids who don't want to go home to a mom who don't deserve them.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
The stbex just wont learn that every thing she says or dose will be used against her.
Thursday night D-10 has a Halloween party for her pepet squad, so I sent her Mom an email this morning with a copy of her invitation
Quote:
stbex (crazy physco (the crazy physco part is not really there just wishing) , D-10 has a Halloween party 10-28-10. I think the best way to handle it is for me to take D-10 on Wednesday so she can go to the party.
To which she replies
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40, We have plans of Wednesday, but you are more than welcome to pick D-10 up from school on Thursday to spend time with her and take her to her party at 6:30 pm. or when you come pick up the boys u can drop D-10 off with me at 6:00 and I will take her to the party.
To which I reply
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Ok I will pick them up at school on Thursday, then drop D-10 off when I get the Twins.
40
Now the good part she is such a B
Quote:
I'm picking up S-7 Thursday. You just need to pick up D-10!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Understand!!!!!!!!!!
Oh yes I do understand I forwarded this to the lawyer along with a note about how this is just another example of how STBEX tries to limit time with my kids.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
I tihnk this attitude is either a tactic, or her just lashing out at you because your WAW perceves you as being in control of yourself and more or less your condition/ situation and she is not. Her plans are going the way she had hoped.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08
I think it is a tactic, or she has guilt (I'm not sure if she knows what this is)turned into rage, I have done nothing to her she is lashing out for no reason. I'm OK with this does not bother me at all because I am through with her.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
After the STBEX and my email exchanges this morning i sent her a second email requesting make up time for the Thursday night we missed when she took the kids to corpus.
Quote:
We still have to make up a night for 10-14-10 when you had the kids in Corpus. As you know I ask you for them the night you returned to make up the time but I was not allowed to see them. When do you want to let the kids see their father to make up for the night they missed.
40
I think I will start sending this email to her every day along with a CC to the lawyer.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
