Of course I'm confused, and then realize OW is behind us and coming to the haunted house with us!!! Needlesss to say I was pissed! H then comes out and says that I'm just not playing nice?!?! What?
Hes pissed, doesnt understand why I dont like her and thinks I should be able to be an "Adult" and be civilized and hang around with her because she is able to put things aside and be an adult.
Now he actually wants me to write down a list of all the reasons I dont like her. I told him to write down the reasons he does like her. I started the list (up to 19 so far) but not sure if i'll give it to him as whenever I write things down he runs them right to her.
OH HELL NO!!!!!!
You do not write a list for him. You do not do anything for him. Serve him w/ D papers and be done. He has a lot of balls/ and audacity pulling the crap he has. It's disgusting.
From this moment forward, I would only talk to him about your children/co-parenting. DO NOT give him the time of day.
I'm going to agree with Soleil here. And second the "OH HELL NO!!!"
He has been doing things he hasnt done in a long time. He was staying here a couple weeks and in that time he was actually staying here rather than spending his time at his buddies place. Helping with cleaning and doing things with the kids. Spending time with me watching movies and actually having real conversations about things other than the marriage.
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Originally Posted By: Jealousy
I figured he seemed upset, said I was being rediculous and I should hold off on filing paper work. Its like he wants the marriage but wants his freedom too.
This is exactly what he wants (and what he currently has). How do you feel about that?
Obviously it upsets me otherwise I wouldnt be here. I have informed him that Im done playing games and as long as she is in his life, I will not be.
Me: 30/ H: 34 DD: 7 / DD: 4 Together 16 years, Married 10 He Moved Out: July 2009 / Came Home: January 2010 Left Again: October 2010
Hi Kell! ::waves::