at this point, i don't even think this m is salvageable.
Although I am a cat so technically cannot possess puppy wisdom, I do share his insights.
I believe Puppy would say that as you are young, there are no children, and you hold the above quoted opinion...move on. A or B - whatever. Move on with your life.
Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
pookie... Just so you know, JTB has been on the other side of this fence. One might not throw stones without knowing the whole story.
I believe Puppy helped more than he hurt, though I didn't always agree with him. On the other hand, he knew from the time that he became Puppy that there was a line that couldn't be crossed. It may be true that the line wasn't always clear, and it may well be that the moderators could, or should, have stepped in before things got to this point. But, they didn't.
As Greek said, Puppy would own it, he knew it could happen one day. Probably even surprised it took this long!