Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
I haven't heard anything from W about meeting to "talk"
It's been two weeks now and I'm sure she is finished reading the book. If you recall, she asked me if she should finish readin the book before we talk and I said That would be a good idea.
Here's my choices:
1. Let her bring up R talk when she's ready OR 2. I ask her if she has finished reading the book?
Here's where I'm confused, If I go with option 2 is it pursuing or is it leading at this point.
Does there come a time when pursuing transitions into leading???
I will not go melty man!
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
I haven't heard anything from W about meeting to "talk"
It's been two weeks now and I'm sure she is finished reading the book. If you recall, she asked me if she should finish readin the book before we talk and I said That would be a good idea.
Here's my choices:
1. Let her bring up R talk when she's ready OR 2. I ask her if she has finished reading the book?
Here's where I'm confused, If I go with option 2 is it pursuing or is it leading at this point.
Does there come a time when pursuing transitions into leading???
I will not go melty man!
No, pursuing anything at this point will not be construed as leading. When she really wants to be with you, she will let you know and you will decide if that's what you want. She still doesn't know what she wants right now, and you can't make those decisions for her. Your decision right now is if you want to continue remaining patient and wait for however long it takes for her to come back or just decide to move on with your life and consider this her loss.
Do not bring up any relationship talk, she will do that if she wants a relationship with you.
Do not bring up any relationship talk, she will do that if she wants a relationship with you.
This was my initial thinking. I want to see her do the necessary work on herself and show me she wants me.
I am now in the "castle" watching her moves. I
I will observe and process. Time is on my side.....Patience.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Things have been going well for me for awhile now. New perspective on life.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Pick up the kids Sunday afternoon from W apartment. See looked attractive and spoke calmly to me about the kids. I am seeing she is more pleasent with her interactions with me.
Three week ago she was reading the SSM andsaid we should talk after she read the book. Ihave not mentioned or asked anything about it. She has yet to R talk to me.
I'm not sure what's she's waiting for but I won;t be the one to bring up R talk.
Other than that, not much has changed. Still day to day, with patience.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
