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CW,
How desperate ow must be to want something tangible to show off to everyone. She must be a very insecure....

Aw man, CW, what a blow! I agree with the others, OW is very insecure and demanding tangible proof of his "love" for her. And I call it "love" very loosely, it's more like an infatuation.

CW, sorry for the bad time. There is no bigger biotch than an insecure OW.

CW -
A ring is a material thing - you are still married. Stay dark and quiet - let this ride out. You hate who H has become / I believe he will become to hate himself as well. Dr. Dobson believes that respect is defined as quiet dignity and self respect and common courtesy. You are the epitome of respect. Stay strong and keep the faith!
IB

Thankyou everyone for your comments and encouragement.

I just hope and pray that H will one day find the courage to finish this journey he is on.

Financially, I figure I have got about 6mos before I will have to push the D thru..6mos in MLC time is nothing and this why I feel a D is inevitable.

This morning, I called the CC company that H is supposed to be taking care of...as of right now, I cannot be removed from the account even if H finally does send in the paper since the it has been delinquit for this long so now my credit rating is in the toilet...I can check back in about 3-6mos after the acct is caught up.

I called an got a contract for propane this winter...pretty sure that promise of H providing wood for us this winter is not going to happen.

I also called and got reinstated on the level payment plan for the electricity.

My Cuisinart coffee pot took a you know what yesterday but luckily, I have a cute little 4 cup one that was my Dad's that I can use as there is no way I can replace the Cuisinart!

I also received a check for a $100 in the mail from my Roth IRA company...I don't know, they switched companies and this is a benefit of that happening so that was pretty timely!

Not a lot of galing happening this weekend...working both jobs and have a hair show to attend but will keep my mind busy!

I also have grandson's birthday party to go to. Will be interesting to see if H shows up at this one.

Hope everyone has a good weekend!

CW,

Good morning. I hope you were able to get a good night's rest. Finances are one thing that have always kept me awake when things were not going well. Glad you go the propane situation figured out. I myself just had to fill my tank for the upcoming winter.

I called two places and got CC of my own on my own credit rating. He has said he has had me removed from the others, but I don't think he has, as they showed up on my credit report.

It sounds as if you are 'taking care of business' and moving ahead, and that is the thing to do. Have a great time at grand's BD party, and let us know if H shows. My H would hardly go when we were together. Too many people in a place made him nervous, even if it was family. ( The PTSD thing)

Hi punkin

Slept like a log last night since I didn't get much the night before!

Here is newest horoscope!

Gemini, Friday, 17 September 2010

How many years have you been on this planet? How many problems have you solved? How many challenges have you risen to? How many skills have you acquired? How much experience have you gained? The answer is the same in every case. Not as many as you are going to... but enough to count for something. If you decide that a current difficulty represents a matter you can easily cope with, are you being dangerously complacent or are you being deeply wise? The latter. Definitely. Trust yourself this weekend. Now is the right time for you to take an in-depth, up close and personal look at your life.

CW,

Where are you reading these horoscopes? They seem so much more in depth than the ones I find. I'm really starting to wonder about this planet alignment thing, and am really interested.

Thanks. I think you told me once before, but I lost where I wrote it down.

C-dub!

I haven't stopped by in a while but have been reading. I am a seagoat.

Just remember you control everything.