Right now her only interest is getting through her nursing orientation. We like to go to the movies and out to dinner and sometime dancing. She was like clockwork...every Thursday Chilies and the Buffalo Chicken Salad.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I don't think low self esteem purposely hurts other people whereas narcissism definitely does.
I'd go easy on the arm-chair phsychiatrist stuff with that handy DSM,
If he was a narcissist, I doubt he'd even be here, let alone beating himself up over and over.
His first wife dumped him. Wife 2 was a rebound, and the rest is what we see here. He's got some work to do, but I don't think we need to peg him with a personality disorder.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
W could not see Catnip unless I put it out on a lighthouse with a 1000 luminous bulb.
Since you have no kids, no pets or anything else to keep the contact going, I understand that concern, but there will be other ways of keeping the distance and letting her know what you're up to.
I don't think low self esteem purposely hurts other people whereas narcissism definitely does.
I'd go easy on the arm-chair phsychiatrist stuff with that handy DSM,
If he was a narcissist, I doubt he'd even be here, let alone beating himself up over and over.
His first wife dumped him. Wife 2 was a rebound, and the rest is what we see here. He's got some work to do, but I don't think we need to peg him with a personality disorder.
That is the issue. My W lives in a different town and probably not reading the newspaper. Her friends are from school and the hospital where she works. She just started the job right before she left me so so I did not meet any of her colleagues. We do not have any children together so I am up a creek without a paddle. My only means of communication with her is via email.