I have to constantly remind myself that the intention is for H and I to spend the rest of our lives together and it is OK to take our time...that we don't HAVE to cram everything in right now to make it all grand and right and good. That doesn't mean I don't WANT to cram it all in, it just helps to take some of the urgency out of everything.
I don't know if that helps any but it is applicable to the changes I am trying to make in myself as well as in my R/M.
Hugz, Zoo
Zoo -- this helps A LOT! Especially today, actually...I've been in "high action" mode all morning despite the knowledge that trying to cram "fix this" down my throat (and even worse, h's throat).
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
Thought I had this morning. Could this partially be a result of being in high action mode to keep up with work, school, the reading you do, plus the new R?
I can see where keeping up with all of this as school ramped up as putting you in high gear and it spilling into other areas. At least I can see it could do that to me!
Just one of those loose thoughts I had floating around and decided to throw out!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
