You can install eBlaster on his PC... do you two share PC's?
If you can trap info on it then you may get the info you need.
But seriously.. This is just more to the point... You need to exit that place asap... His or not, He's behaving in a manner that's abusive to you, and as a result your son as well...
It may not be his, he's STILL looking at photos of another woman on his PC... suppose its not his? Does that make this all OK with you then?
Seriously are you comfortable with him donig this if it isn't his?
It doens't MATTER... his behaviour towards IHH is abusive and she needs to get OUT of there...
Seriously... the pregnancy thing is MOOT at this point.
No doubt. If he is abusive, the pregnancy is moot and she needs to get out, but if she wants to know if it's his, she should be able to confirm whether or not the OW is currently pregnant.
Yes they are recent. I sseriously cannot talk to him about this? I will be getting out, that is for sure. But WTF do I do if it's his. Omg. I will install eblaster but like I said most of their relationship is in person or on the phone/texting. Can I call his mother and ask her if he has told her something I should know?
Me 30 H 29 DC 9, 7, 2 M 4 years, T 6 years ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10 He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too Physically separating end of September
They were sent to him by phone. These were deleted in the recycle bin from when he tried to organize his pictures. There were two cleavage shots as well. I have copies of them in my email now. Only one has her face.
One problem is she looks to be at least 3-4 months along and maybe more. I've seen her drinking as recently as a month ago. This may be new news which is maybe why I got the bomb. He MAY be supporting his friend during a hard time of a pregnancy without a regular dad. She was not seeing anyone else seriously as far as I know. I do know of two semi recent flings though.
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Me 30 H 29 DC 9, 7, 2 M 4 years, T 6 years ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10 He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too Physically separating end of September
Also when the baby is born can't I have a paternity test ordered to prove adultery? So it will come out eventually, no matter what, his or not.
Me 30 H 29 DC 9, 7, 2 M 4 years, T 6 years ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10 He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too Physically separating end of September
You all are right. He mentioned to me thinking about getting an apartment an still paying half here. Is that a good idea? Or not since she is still the property manager. We would be living apart, i could sign the lease to protect myself, and would be less hard on the kids. Yea? No?
Me 30 H 29 DC 9, 7, 2 M 4 years, T 6 years ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10 He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too Physically separating end of September
