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Allen A #2056903 08/15/10 11:38 PM
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Ive read those. I could probably do the first one, but I dont have the money. I would in a few weeks, but I will need some help being walked through it. Im not as worried about the phone because most of their stuff is text/computer. I could do the GPS, but again, money.


Me 30 H 29
DC 9, 7, 2
M 4 years, T 6 years
ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10
He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too
Physically separating end of September
Ihavehope #2056907 08/15/10 11:44 PM
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Yup, INTEL costs... My worry is you will find something so condemning that you will be enraged and throw it at him... Which is the LAST thing you want to do...

When you start collecting intel and REVEAL it to him you OUT yourself and your intel operation and he will shut it down on you...

Collect the intel and act on it but give no indication to him you know anything...

This reverses the affair dynamic because before HE knew more than you did ... Once you start an intel operation YOU are in the know and HE is out of the loop...

It's hard to pull off but the info is there... Do you know any tech savvy people in your area who would be willing to help you?

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Allen A #2057616 08/16/10 11:57 PM
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Part of the problem is 99% of their communication is via phone texting. I don't think there is anything I can do about that.


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M 4 years, T 6 years
ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10
He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too
Physically separating end of September
Ihavehope #2057622 08/17/10 12:06 AM
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I would be very surprised if they wren't using teh PC... It's pretty standard fare these days...

Allen A #2057628 08/17/10 12:12 AM
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He knows I look through everything on the computer. They are facebook friends, but the last time he 'forgot' to log off I looked and there was nothing that incriminating. Just a few youtube videos. He knows I have zero access to the phone, and they text 200-500 times per day, some pictures.

They might use the PC occasionally, but its not that big in their relationship.

I do have a techy question I'd like to ask, but I'd like to do it in PM, juuuuust in case he finds this site and reads it. Can someone PM me who knows about this kind of stuff?

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Me 30 H 29
DC 9, 7, 2
M 4 years, T 6 years
ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10
He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too
Physically separating end of September
Ihavehope #2057642 08/17/10 12:28 AM
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Pm's aren't supported on this forum unfortunately... that I know of... you would have to post an email address

You can always create an anonymous one.. which would be a good idea since it would show up in a google search

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