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I love this. I rarely post - if ever. But have been looking for support and saw your post which truly speaks to me. I so agree.

I'm mostly a lurker but I've been at this DBing for a while (since 05.)

I've made huge strides but I have no choice but to be in close contact with WAW XW. It has served to 'extend' things a bit. (I work with her...)

It is my goal to finally be free. To forgive and to understand. Yes, I could have done things better. But she actually said it best when she let it be known there was nothing I could have done to save things.(You've all heard this before...) Too bad, she could be great before the bomb in 05 but she's not a nice person now. (MLC stuff...)

Yes, I know it's been a while but amazingly there's still a small amount of residue. It's my goal to revisit the DB principles again and finally get some good closure,

Coyote!