Seems like your doing well with all this. I'm not sure, but why are you going with her to get her an apartment? It's almost cake-eating on her part, dont you think? She still has your security.
Nah, she asked me to come, it's no big deal. I'd like to see where my daughters are going to be staying when they're not with me.
Good morning with my Ds, and the two new kitties. The girls are so happy about them. They're pretty shy kittens, but they'll grow accustomed to the house. Sad to admit that I don't miss our dog at all.
W has the day off, so she was awake while I got the girls ready for daycamp. She actually picked up the shy kitten and was holding/petting it. And she says she hates cats. She was freaking out when the other cat started messing with the carpet, but I told her not to worry about it since our dog had already ruined it.
We're going to see the apt at 11:30. Should be interesting to see how she reacts. I don't really care, it's fine, she doesn't need Trump Manor, just a clean, safe place.
Oh, and last night she made a comment about not caring if I dated or not.
RED FLAG
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Oh, and last night she made a comment about not caring if I dated or not.
RED FLAG
Yep. She had said a few minutes ago that she wasn't "running away to anyone," but then slipped that one in. She's also said something about not "trolling for guys." Yet another red flag. She's pretty obvious really, once you get even the least distance.
If that's the case, I'll be filing pretty quickly. I still don't think there's anyone in particular, but she obviously is hoping to find someone. Part of this fantasy she has about how great life will be when she leaves.
She also mentioned a song that she thinks fits her sitch. The key lyrics are: "You'll find love, you'll find peace, you'll find the you you're meant to be."
Just interesting that she's moving so slowly on leaving; if it weren't for me giving some pressure, she'd be here until spring.
Oh, and last night she made a comment about not caring if I dated or not.
RED FLAG
Yep. She had said a few minutes ago that she wasn't "running away to anyone," but then slipped that one in. She's also said something about not "trolling for guys." Yet another red flag. She's pretty obvious really, once you get even the least distance.
If that's the case, I'll be filing pretty quickly. I still don't think there's anyone in particular, but she obviously is hoping to find someone. Part of this fantasy she has about how great life will be when she leaves.
She also mentioned a song that she thinks fits her sitch. The key lyrics are: "You'll find love, you'll find peace, you'll find the you you're meant to be."
Just interesting that she's moving so slowly on leaving; if it weren't for me giving some pressure, she'd be here until spring.
I think that's when I would say, "I'll date when I think it's the moral thing to do and I certainly don't need your permission. And, if you think you can just 'dismiss me,' you can take your ass out of here until you can act in a more respectful manner."
