OR....he is being used by her...which is a more likely theory.Trust me..I know him and he is not a bad person, he has just made bad choices. I got up at 6 and went running today so I am at peace with myself now. OW..you can leave me alone now.
Thank you for all of your help! I will also say that for her all of this is justified, they are in love, you cant help who you fall in love with, they are soul mates, they have relationship built on trust...HER WORDS not mine...These are all things I have heard from her over the course of finding out. She will find a reason to back ALL of this up. She takes what she wants and she does not care whom she hurts in the process..she does not care if she hurts me or my children..she only cares about HER and what is best for HER! You can help whom you fall in love with...you dont go after your best friend's h...it is wrong...she knew it was wrong and that just tells me that her morals and values do not exsist. It is sad..but I am getting SOOO much stronger..so thank you OW for letting me see my strength!
It never ceases to amaze me how the betrayed spouse can get so angry and mad and hate the other man or other woman and say things such as:
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Oy! I believe that a woman or man who goes after their BEST FRIEND'S SO/ partner/spouse is a serious loser. It's even more f-cked, IMO.
And yet excuse and downplay that YOUR SPOUSE who is having an affair with YOUR best friend is doing the exact same thing you are complaining about your best friend doing...
