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You have a choice in how you let people treat you. What kind of wise decisions are you making for yourself?

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[color:#6666CC]What kind of wise decisions are you making for yourself? [/quote][/color]

Not sure what you are implying..but you are right. I have made a list of 10 goals to complete by this time next year.

This was YOUR question. Not mine.

I told you how to maker HER insignificant and you come back with some pollyanna answer about nobody on earth is a loser???? and then go into talking about your WS.. Where did we go from YOU asking about how to make her insignificant to you giving me a speech about how he isn't a loser???


Wake up and smell the coffee. If it smells like a loser, walks like a loser, talks like a loser... Then face it. IT is a loser. Their ARE BAD people in this world. Face reality my dear.

I know and I am sorry. This is exactly what I did not want to do because I really value the opinions that I am given on here. I am sorry. Yes. It was my question. Sorry again. Really. I do respect and value your opinion.

Seriously, be careful with a blanket statement like that, this thread could explode with the responses you will get to saying things like that.

You don't think anyone in this WHOLE WORLD is a loser,
considering current global population is @ 6,858,082,922 people give or take several hundred thousand, I'm sure you could find a few losers:
- drug dealers
- child abusers
- pedophiles
- murderers
- dead beat parents
- select politicians
- that ba$tard garbage truck driver who always makes a mess with my garbage can and his new fandangled robotic arm attachment on his truck
- and a few hundred other entries to add to the list

Seriously, it's pretty easy to find quite a few "LOSERS" in this WHOLE WORLD.

Maybe it is TIME to get some anger at your WS instead of making excuses for him.

LMAO

nice one robx

As a college educated, intelligent woman I should have known better than to make a statement like that. So..I am sorry you are right. Dumb statement to make. I was trying to get my point across that he was not a loser. I really am sorry if I offended anyone..That was NOT my point.

no offense taken, no worries ;-)

However, as a college "edumicated" intelligent woman,
you should know that if he's willing to let you go for some woman who chases after married men then you should already know that he lost, not you.

When that shiny new relationship they have starts to lose it's lustre, she will look for her next excitement fix and chase after another married or attached man and your wayward spouse will be left alone and thinking how much of a loser he is that he left a good thing to scratch a temporary itch he had, he may even come crawling back to you and that point, you will smile and say "no thank you"

Swimming...bah don't worry about it. Its all drama, all the time and it would do you good separate from that. I think we can all agree that this is doing some damage to your self esteem. To get repect, you have to respect yourself and show it. And it starts with beleiving that you dont deserve this kind of drama in your life. These people are fishing to have thier behavior ligitmized and everyone knows its absurd.

By saying he's not a loser, you are saying you respect your H...when his actions are disrespectful to you. You're defending him and his actions.