But I don't think much harm (other than personal emotional fallout) can come of us being "generous" to our (x)life partners. In other words, you can know with relative certainty that you'll never look back at taking the high road now and say: "Oh, I really wish I had shi**ed on that bi*ch when I had the chance!"...
Hey Mrs. A - I don't necessarily disagree with this at all. In fact I have taken the "high road" for pretty much the last 2 1/2 years. The downside is that at times I have left myself open to being taken advantage of and walked on, plus my WAW has really never experienced true consequences to her actions. The only real stand I took was not being the one to move out and find an apartment. I just could not agree to be the one to leave our D's and our home when I wasn't the one who cheated and wanted the divorce. Other than that I have been extremely accomodating almost to a fault. Now I am doing it again by allowing her to move back into the house even though in her words it is in a roommate environment and not under the guise of a reconcilliation. However there are benefits to me as well. Financially it will help and also, with us under one roof it will mean that I get to see my D's everyday instead of just 50% of the time!
