Thanks I know you real busy. I just was wondering based off of what I wrote today about the bc pills do you think something is starting again or is it me being paranoid?
I want to keep my hope alive but it seems to get harder and harder somedays! One more thing should I just don't know if when I see her just keep little chit chat and continue to be dark.
The whole thing with the bc pills is getting to me!!! Sorry Thanks for the time I don't usually write during the day cause she pays the bill for the iPhone and don't want to be caught on here by her anyway thanks again talk later.
There can be other reasons one uses birth control pills other than birth control. Both of my daughter, for example, take them because of painful cysts. I wouldn't jump to any conclusions there, but rather keep it in the "something to keep an eye on" category.
The best kinds of threads are:
1) Poster-specific. Your "home" thread. STICK TO IT, post to it regularly (even if you're not getting a lot of responses), as it's a good journal for yourself and it's therapeutic.
2) Topic-specific. You can OCCASIONALLY supplement your main thread with one that's topic-specific, such as "She's Back on The Pill -- Cause for Alarm??" or some such. The more provocative the title, the more response you'll probably get.
Keep your posts short to medium, use lots of paragraph breaks, and JUST KEEP POSTING. And post to others.
Hey thanks again, Just a little frazzled by the bc pills just based on what has happened over the past few months.
I want to believe W it's just hard cause what she did!! I'm not searching or looking for clues unless it's in plain sight.. It's just gonna be hard without S around for he next few weeks gonna keep busy at my place, but the bc pills make me wonder more. Why now?
Anyway any tips on maybe gathering intell or should I just keep acting as if I will be fine D or not we haven't had really any contact as of late trying to stay mysterious!
Lastly cantor tell me if starting a new thread with my story would be better or can I change the heading of my post and can I have sub post in my threads .
Again thank you for you time and encouragement and everyone else on here. As much as somedays r tough I just do not want to lose my hope no matter how little it gets sometimes!!! Thank u HOPE
Hey thanks again, Just a little frazzled by the bc pills just based on what has happened over the past few months.
I want to believe W it's just hard cause what she did!!
I didn't say to believe her. I wouldn't believe ANYTHING she tells you during this stage: ALL CHEATERS LIE -- period.
I'm just saying "Don't jump to conclusions," either. Everything should be verified INDEPENDENTLY, whenever possible, and if not, chalked up to "I'll need to keep my eyes and ears open about that."
I'm normally very pro-intel, but you're so reactive at this point, I don't think I'd recommend it.
Thanks like I said I want to believe her, but my gut and our mc who is my ic also thinks they might be in touch in some way. Our mc has been dead on about everything and she is the one that got me on here.
The sad thing about this is that the first dropped the D in feb of 09 we worked so hard to get where we were last year at this time until she met OM last aug. Ea then PA in Jan this year and dropped D again.
So I have my eyes and ears open it just hurts because I know we could get through this, but I don't want her if it seems like I'm just here on the back burner waiting. Do i continue to not let my emotions get too me and be sort of cold and happy when we do talk. Also at first we were going to do mediation now I don't know?
What tips do you have or advice on the D talks. I personally think she is confused a lot and she does have many issues from the past she has to work on. Who knows noone can take all my hope away. Hey Thais again puppy for event all the advice today. Sorry do you think I should star a new thread tonight starting in order or can I rename a thread thank you talk soon hope
