You sound good. Just remember to not believe or "take to heart" anything she says to justify her feelings of "walking away". It is script to recreate and throw-away history to alleviate guilt.
Just focus on becoming the best "pinhead" you can be.
I've had dinner plans (bbq) with my sister's husband for tonight, and my W called to ask a question about my daughters. I mentioned that I was going to head over to the cookout from work after grabbing some food supplies. She got really quiet, and then asked me if I was avoiding her. I said (pretty cheerfully) "No, not at all."
Maybe she's feeling the lack of tension in the rope.
So now I'm going to make plans for a movie tomorrow night with some of the guys.
I've had dinner plans (bbq) with my sister's husband for tonight, and my W called to ask a question about my daughters. I mentioned that I was going to head over to the cookout from work after grabbing some food supplies. She got really quiet, and then asked me if I was avoiding her. I said (pretty cheerfully) "No, not at all."
Maybe she's feeling the lack of tension in the rope.
So now I'm going to make plans for a movie tomorrow night with some of the guys.
I've decided to let go. If you love someone, set them free. Used to be one ofmy favorite songs. I don't feel this cathartic release though, I feel sad at the death of my marriage. I'm detached, but I still feel sad and don't think there's a thing wrong with that.
I told her that lingering was not doing any of us any good. That she should find a place when she returns from her trip back home. Hardest thing I've ever done, letting go of the rope. Beating cancer was a piece of cake...
Hi Pinhead, I am also a cancer survivor and it is crazy to say but I have to agree with you, about it being a piece of cake compared to this. This is just so heart renching. I feel so lost and confused. I hope it gets better with time, But I Am having a hard time seeing that now.
Me:43 H:43 T:20 YRS M:15 YRS Bomb: 6/9/08 Bomb#2 7/6/10 Served with papers at work 7/13/10 DD:14, DD:11
I can't tell if she's angry because she feels like she's lost control of the ditch or not, but it really doesn't matter. She's free,what she says she wants.
Had cancer too. Went to MD Anderson and had an 18 hour surgery. That was not crap compared to losing the one person that you want. By not getting your way. By not being able to make the one person that means the most do what you want. Bad way to put it but isn't that what we want for them to do-cave and give in to our needs?
you can be.