Hi Hope...I just wanted to pop in and see how things were going.
I saw something that seems pretty tough for you to handle, but you are surviving, aren't you! Your son still loves you and will always want you in his life. Your wife is finding a loving man...what is wrong with emotions?? Maybe they aren't helping, maybe they are. But you can't be anyone but yourself. I hope you find some more hope for this relationship.
Hey thanks, Hope all is well with you!! Just trying to keep my head up some days better than others. Trying to stay low right now and continue to work on things in my life. I still have hope it's just getting a little bit harder. I just not sure what to do next besides giving it time and laying low...
Hey guys, So I got a call from my W didn't answer. She left a message saying she was just calling to let me know she was getting S early. (I guess the argument we had when I said don't contact me unless it's to do with our S she took to heart). Sweet at least I can see S for 1 more day before S leaves to go back see our families in New England for a few weeks.
So when I see W when I pick up S do I act happy or kind of cold not sure what to do by "going dark"? What if she brings up the Separation Agreement? At first we agreed to do mediation, but now it seems she is going to her lawyer (WTF)!! Although she makes more than me we don't have the money to get lawyers involved, but if needed I can somehow!!
Does staying dark help? Does anyone have any thoughts on her going back home will make her think, or more than likely will people just side with her? As I told my Sister-in-Law’s husband (My Brother in- Law) there are 2 sides to everything…(He at least understands)
Guess it’s just wishful thinking to expect anything to change yet? probably doesn’t matter either.. If she asks to talk about the D do I just tell her that I need more time to sort some things to avoid talking at all just confused as what to do any thoughts?
I’m taking Nyquil to try and fight this cold I have, so sorry if not everything is clear.
Hey Guys, Just saw S for the first time in almost 2 weeks, so I surprised him with a cold slurpee!! Anyway it was great to see him and we planned a special dinner for Weds. As W & S leave Thurs. Anyway W and I talked for the first time in almost 2 weeks.
Not much basically about her mom as something’s came up over the past week, but no one told W till Sat. I found Fri only because I talked to my sister-in law & her husband. (I felt kind of bad as I thought someone would have called W, and told her about her mom; it wasn’t a major crisis but still). W was shocked I knew before her… I told her to let me know if she heard anything else.
Then we just talked about me watching the pets till she gets back on Tues morning. No talks about D, M, or R a lot better than 2 weeks ago. I was cool, calm, and didn’t stay long like I had somewhere to be then said bye. Before I entered my car she stopped me and said I had mail then we said bye. This is probably nothing, but I didn’t let any of my emotions get to me even though I wanted to say something’s.
Any thoughts or helpful tips or suggestions, or things I should keep doing, or shouldn’t. Today I was reading some of the post on “setting them free” some really good advice!! This is no easy journey for anyone. I can only hope for the best even when I know the odds are stacked against me. Thanks talk soon Hope
