Yup probably so. No she doesnt know. SHe texting like crazy that i did something to her phone. She knows I was up to something, but not what I found. I am cool and collected, but I do want to confront her. I wont be able to avoid this. She will continue nonstop to find out.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
Do NOT admit to any snooping in writing to her. DON'T RESPOND to her . . . let her twist in the wind for now.
Puppy
OK, I have played stupid right now. I keep telling her, I dont know what you are talking about with the phone.
So what are my next steps? Do I admit I did have it?
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Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
Get your emotions in check, get your thinking straight and know what kind of man you are.
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Yup she knows I was in her phone it confirmed. Now she said we have no trust.
These are responses designed to keep you off balance and in line. Next time just agree with her and walk-away - don't take the bait. "You are right wife we have no trust between us right now."
You can handle it.
Coach ps I am up in S'port City when you want to have a beer.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Do this one thing...This ONE thing for ME...take your phone apart. Take the battery out and put it in your sock drawer. Put the handset in the trunk of your car. Do NOT put it back together until tomorrow morning. I'm totally serious. She is texting you like crazy bc she is busted and afraid of the action you will take and what it will cost her. So let her cheese twist in the wind. But if you get on the phone and start going back and forth w her, you will lose that sharp edge.
Do that ONE thing for me.
Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
Get your emotions in check, get your thinking straight and know what kind of man you are.
Quote:
Yup she knows I was in her phone it confirmed. Now she said we have no trust.
These are responses designed to keep you off balance and in line. Next time just agree with her and walk-away - don't take the bait. "You are right wife we have no trust between us right now."
You can handle it.
Coach ps I am up in S'port City when you want to have a beer.
I think I can handle it. I do hurt. not angry nor mad, just hurt.
I may may a special trip up there. I'll let you know, I am gonna talk your ear off though.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
So what are my next steps? Aftet 24 hours. I plan on going to my L and IC tomorrow to talk about this.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
OK..well I am back to the house from"getting coffee".
Thnaks Puppy, I'll be back on later this everning. I'll post some dialog, on my recent findings.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
