If this is to mean, I had sex and it is considered reconciling, the D is now null? This wouldn't benefit W.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
Different states have different family law about when the marriage became "irrevocably damaged," etc., and when "separation" occurred, etc. Some even will interpret a betrayed spouse's voluntary LMing with their cheating spouse as being their tacit approval, and therefore nullifying their opportunity to file for D on grounds of adultery, providing the betrayed spouse knew about the infidelity at the time they re-consummated their marriage.
I'm not attorney, and not all jurisdictions make this difference, but some definitely do. Certainly worth discussing with your atty.
Different states have different family law about when the marriage became "irrevocably damaged," etc., and when "separation" occurred, etc. Some even will interpret a betrayed spouse's voluntary LMing with their cheating spouse as being their tacit approval, and therefore nullifying their opportunity to file for D on grounds of adultery, providing the betrayed spouse knew about the infidelity at the time they re-consummated their marriage.
I'm not attorney, and not all jurisdictions make this difference, but some definitely do. Certainly worth discussing with your atty.
Puppy
Ah ha. I see now. I have not had sex with wife since I found out EA/PA. I don't think I could now anyways until we actually reconciled..and OM is out of the picture.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
Different states have different family law about when the marriage became "irrevocably damaged," etc., and when "separation" occurred, etc. Some even will interpret a betrayed spouse's voluntary LMing with their cheating spouse as being their tacit approval, and therefore nullifying their opportunity to file for D on grounds of adultery, providing the betrayed spouse knew about the infidelity at the time they re-consummated their marriage.
I'm not attorney, and not all jurisdictions make this difference, but some definitely do. Certainly worth discussing with your atty.
Puppy
Ah ha. I see now. I have not had sex with wife since I found out EA/PA. I don't think I could now anyways until we actually reconciled..and OM is out of the picture.
Still best to be informed about its legalities there. She may attempt it at some point, and -- as "the flesh is weak," as they say -- forearmed is forewarned.
Different states have different family law about when the marriage became "irrevocably damaged," etc., and when "separation" occurred, etc. Some even will interpret a betrayed spouse's voluntary LMing with their cheating spouse as being their tacit approval, and therefore nullifying their opportunity to file for D on grounds of adultery, providing the betrayed spouse knew about the infidelity at the time they re-consummated their marriage.
I'm not attorney, and not all jurisdictions make this difference, but some definitely do. Certainly worth discussing with your atty.
Puppy
Ah ha. I see now. I have not had sex with wife since I found out EA/PA. I don't think I could now anyways until we actually reconciled..and OM is out of the picture.
Still best to be informed about its legalities there. She may attempt it at some point, and -- as "the flesh is weak," as they say -- forearmed is forewarned.
Puppy
I know she will. It will be hard to resist. I know formyself, right now(if it indeed happened)I cannot go where another man has been. I just can't do it.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10
