It really helps knowing people are reading my posts /Thoughts.
I have kept my sitch for the most part to myself locally. Sometimes it is hard being around family and friends not letting them know what is happening... Something happened last night that I thought I would let ya know about. SOMEONE here (I forgot who) wrote about going to Disneyland and staying at the same hotel that they stayed at when their bomb was first dropped. They returned to that hotel and His W did not remember staying there she was so much in a fog. Well... Last night W came outside to see the Christmas Decorations I had put up. With the lack of a job or money I could not buy anything new this year and in fact was a little out of the x mas spirit and did not put up all that I had. Last year though I did do some ‘retail therapy” and did get some new stuff that I put out then. Anyway like I said wife came out and really liked what I did. But she kept on saying....’I don’t remember those Snowmen” and “I don’t remember those stars” Seems like our runaway spouses were really lost in a fog not really paying attention in the past to what is really happening around them… Well got ta go cleaning up the house for tomorrow nights party Later Dr LOve
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Wow how did I miss that.....you were dreaming about me..Now I can't wait to open my "present" Just a bow please Hope you and yours have a great X mas ..
My son kept trying to peek at his presents so I brought home a 'Police line Do Not Cross' tape and stuck it around the tree...
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
so I brought home a 'Police line Do Not Cross' tape and stuck it around the tree...
How cool is that!!!! Merry Christmas Doc and to all my other DB friends. Sorry for the hijack Doc but as you know I am a lonely wandering poster these days - lol
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
I have kept my sitch for the most part to myself locally. Sometimes it is hard being around family and friends not letting them know what is happening...
DB is a lonely vigil. It is best if it is kept private and shared with only trusted people that don't have a relationship with our spouses. We also want our spouses to reconnect with our families (if there's been estrangement).
On the other hand, I'm sure that there are secrets we are not privy to (nor should be) with the marriages of siblings and parents and other family members. We don't want to add a family member as a third party (or be a part of) to our marital problems.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
Wow how did I miss that.....you were dreaming about me..Now I can't wait to open my "present" Just a bow please
I really laughed out loud when I read that! Too funny! And yes Doc, I do remember the man panties! Let's not forgets whips, boots, man jumpsuits, cut-offs, and roadkill. Good times...lol
Sounds like you are doing well, glad to hear it!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
YoYo.hey lady I cleaned out my p/u bed..do you want to have a tail gate party?????
Ok here ya go...
I have really been in a funk lately. Not sure why except I have shut down my feelings for so long It is kind of hard to turn them back on. I am getting way better at NOT taking things personal. That is a big problem with me. Just yesterday W was asking me where I have been looking for work. It’s a legitimate question but right off (In my head) I thought ‘why are YOU asking me about getting a job... YOU have not worked for over 3 years Maybe YOU should start looking”…Yes I thought this but did not say it…
Ok some positives…another thing I have taken ‘personal’ were that W never had a picture of me at her desk when she was working. She had our S and D’s but not mine. Then on her computer her screen saver is that same way… Well about a year ago I bought W a digital picture frame that you can load about 20 pictures into and it give you a slide show. This year she finely put it out and guesses what??
There are several pictures of me… She has been really nice and it truly does seem like the fog has lifted. BUT...I am so afraid that if I try anything. The curtain will drop again. Yes I know this is MY problem that I need to get over but I have been shut down so many times in the past... I have do have more to write but W is watching Harry Potter and wants me to watch it also/ Plus she made us margaritas…..Next step is to figure out a way to try to seduce her without coming off as trying to seduce her. Getting a job is my first priority right now...
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
"Next step is to figure out a way to try to seduce her without coming off as trying to seduce her."
Hmmmm... Not sure why you think this is a good approach. I personally like a strong, confident, purposeful manly seduction. Who wouldn't?
What is NOT at all enticing is a NEEDY, tentative, sneaky approach in which it seems a man is trying to trick you into being horny or seduced. The DREADED "accidental" brush of the breast or inner thigh during a backrub is a prime example here....
