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Re: H moved in w/ OW. Wants month to fig things out.
Allen A #2022337 06/17/10 03:23 AM
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Yes, I can do that. I'll go in the bathroom and have someone tell him to leave.

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trouble in paradise again....
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Re: H moved in w/ OW. Wants month to fig things out.
seanna #2022340 06/17/10 03:25 AM
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Originally Posted By: seanna
Ya, I know he's already feeling the effects of the affair not only hurting me but it destroyed the kids too. My youngest keeps crying to him to come home.


Yup.. I am just planning in my head how you are gonna keep up protection phase at work... you need a plan Seanna, you can't just hope he won't show up... you KNOW he WILL.. particularyl case he KNOWS you can't hide
Re: H moved in w/ OW. Wants month to fig things out.
seanna #2022341 06/17/10 03:25 AM
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Originally Posted By: seanna
Yes, I can do that. I'll go in the bathroom and have someone tell him to leave.


OK, so you work there and tehre's a manager?

Is there other people on staff while you work?

Can you see the parking lot from the inside of the shop so you can see him coming?
Re: H moved in w/ OW. Wants month to fig things out.
Allen A #2022342 06/17/10 03:27 AM
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No, I work with 6 other people. If (and only if) I see him in the parking lot I could go in the back and tell one of the guys to tell him to leave. If I'm with a customer though, I guess I could leave him in the chair for a few min. I only work 3 half days a week. I really hope that this won't be an issue

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M-16 T-19
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left for OW 6/11/10
came back on 7/5/10 to present
trouble in paradise again....
You know I'm a dreamer.........
Re: H moved in w/ OW. Wants month to fig things out.
Allen A #2022343 06/17/10 03:29 AM
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Crap. Now I'm freaked out.

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M-16 T-19
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left for OW 6/11/10
came back on 7/5/10 to present
trouble in paradise again....
You know I'm a dreamer.........
Re: H moved in w/ OW. Wants month to fig things out.
Allen A #2022348 06/17/10 03:32 AM
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No manager really. Dad owns the shop. Yes, other people are there. There isn't a back parking lot, and if I'm not in the middle of a haircut, I could see him coming if I was looking out the window

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M-16 T-19
S-10
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left for OW 6/11/10
came back on 7/5/10 to present
trouble in paradise again....
You know I'm a dreamer.........
Re: H moved in w/ OW. Wants month to fig things out.
seanna #2022349 06/17/10 03:36 AM
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Another text just came in....."I miss you & can't believe how much you love me. I'm so undeserving. I'm going to make this up to you I swear! I'm going to worship you because you've really shown me what love is.I want to be the husband and father you want me to be. I MISS YOU SO MUCH & I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. I think more than ever After this is over it will be happily ever after ok?"

Oh jeez i'm in trouble.........
Not responding!!!!! Promise!!

Last edited by seanna; 06/17/10 03:37 AM.
M-43
H-44
M-16 T-19
S-10
S-8
left for OW 6/11/10
came back on 7/5/10 to present
trouble in paradise again....
You know I'm a dreamer.........
Re: H moved in w/ OW. Wants month to fig things out.
seanna #2022353 06/17/10 03:47 AM
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Ok, I just read where you posted that I wasn't to read his text. I won't anymore. I didn't see that part. Ok, Thanks for your help. I'll make a plan for any encounter that may or may not happen and I'll stick to the plan.

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M-16 T-19
S-10
S-8
left for OW 6/11/10
came back on 7/5/10 to present
trouble in paradise again....
You know I'm a dreamer.........
Re: H moved in w/ OW. Wants month to fig things out.
seanna #2022358 06/17/10 04:04 AM
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Read Protection phase again... I think you may have skimmed the book! smile

If Dad owns the shop can't you take some time off of there?
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Allen A #2022364 06/17/10 04:14 AM
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You need to get your mother to phone him and tell him to stop sending messages and that you aren't reading them she is deleting them... OK?

get your mother to call and tell him to go away or she will call the police
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