Don't take all of the blame for the breakdown. There's seldom a M where either partners are perfect.
Right now, you need to get up and start moving, okay? Either get out and go walk for a long time or go find a relative or close friend you can be with this evening until you feel some of this lifting.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Yes I can't beleive it myself its like she said Im done with him I want to be with him. I am wondering what she told everyone to make them think I am soo bad. Unfortunatly I have nowhere to go and no one to go and talk to. Thats why I am here.
I am still wondering do I let everyone know what is going on???She won't even tell the kids what is going on just that mom and dad have problems.Should I go to where all of our friends are now and confront them in front of everyone.
No, that's not the way to do it. Besides, if you expose, you need to be in control of your emotions. You never do this on impulse and never act out of emotions.
Give yourself time to get to a better place than you are tonight. Go over to the infidelity forum to read how to bust an A before you decide on anything.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
