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Re: The countdown continues
Awoken #2034184 07/07/10 11:39 PM
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(((Awoken)))
I understand.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac
Re: The countdown continues
Awoken #2034762 07/08/10 06:59 PM
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Awoken, what helps me the most when I start trying to mind-read STBXH and figure out his motivations/etc...is thinking to myself "NOT MY PROBLEM". Seriously, you and I have had our energy drained by living with unhealthy marriage dynamics. The freedom comes from letting go of the habit of using our mental and emotional energy trying to "understand" (=fix) our spouses.

me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp
.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Re: The countdown continues
flowmom #2043214 07/22/10 08:19 PM
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M:42|W:40|D:17|S:13|Bomb:10/23/09
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