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He is NOT local and NOT married. He's divorced with kids and single now.

I have EVERYTHING on him. EVERYTHING. Right down to the street he lives on from her online driving direction search.

Nice.

If you know where he works you can find the ip address... If he's been contacting her from his workplace you can send in the text and report him... it may get him fired

He's in the military. I know exactly at what base.

BUT, I already contacted him, and he said he would back off. He unfriended her on FB. She messaged him twice with friend requests last night. Then she did some online searches of "how to reel a guy in".

He also said I crossed a line and he "wants to discuss in person", meaning he wants to beat me up I think.

And what about the other first guy, the one she sometimes works with. (NOT the FB guy)

The army guy ya, don't bother meeting him in person...

If you have all his military info including his reporting officers SEND him all that info so he KNOWS you have leverage on him..

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BACK OFF Or I'll use it

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Something like that

Do you have info on the work guy too?

I have EVERYTHING and a bag Doritos on him.

BUT I am cautions about FB messaging him. His wife may have access to the account, and although he sexted and tried to seduce my wife, ultimately he got a naked picture.

I just want him to know that I KNOW, and that I WILL KNOW if ANYTHING ELSE happens between them. ANYTHING.

I could CALL him on his cell #, but I don't know how that will go.

Contact OM privately show him you have all the info on him

List it all in DETAIL so he believes you

His kids names, his wife's name etc

Then tell him to STAY AWAY FROM YOUR WIFE or you'll USE IT

Get something in her car with a gps to track her location too...

Dude. Remind me NEVER EVER to mess with you. Seriously. I thought I was being a hard person, and you should have read my FB message. I was calm but sincere and stern about my "disappointment". I didn't threaten him at all. I even messaged him again to make sure he knew that.

But I guess my wife, having lost the FB affair, might just run to her work guy and seek comfort because "he understands her", and they will have that connection of both being found out.

So I guess I need to be REALLY tough on this guy to PREVENT anything like that from happening.

Should I forbid him to talk to my wife about me contacting him? She might just think I am the most psycho husband ever when she finds out I contacted BOTH men, and then exposed to family and friends.


BTW, I HAVE ALREADY EXPOSED to her parents (made the SWEAR not to let on where they found out), my parents, my friends, and my coworkers.

I still have yet to do her friends and coworkers. Should I also pursue that as well?

Only just about every one of the 1,000+ affairs I have studied, and the dozens with which I am personally familiar.

Do NOT assure the one OM that you won't do ANYTHING. He is a PREDATOR, and deserves NO assurances from the preyed-upon!!

Puppy