Had D5 graduation yesterday and W and I didn't say one word to each other. Her family was there too, Mom, stepdad, dad, brother and SIL and Aunt.
I was the first to arrive, then her mom and stepdad came in and sat behind me. We talked for a bit but when W and S2 came in S2 ran to see me and I focused all my attention on him.
W sat ext too her mom behind me, as did her father. Her brother and his wife sat next to my S2 and me.
I have an appraiser coming over tonight. May use that has an opportunity the gauge W's reaction once she knows what I decide to do- Sell or buy her out?
This was the first event for the kids that the "Family" as been too. It was a little awkward buy I guess this is the way W wants to move forward. I know D5 was upset because I wasn't with her to go to dinner. She did call me later that night.
I have forgiven my W for leaving but it's hard to forgive her for the kids sake.
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