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Sounds good!

No it is great!!!

And nothing messes that up from you from this point forward.

Well, I am going to file my response today to my W petition. I am very anxious about it for some reason. I guess it will be one step closer to us being divorced. I feel so bad for our two kids. It will just devastate them more. She has no idea what it will do to them when I are finally living separately.

I am so sad for them more than me. My parents have been married for 50 years this year, and I could not imagine how I would feel if they would have been divorced. Truly a sad day I was given no choice but to respond.

I hope to keep up my positive attitude about this.

I do have another job interview tomorrow, and multiple calls for other jobs too.

I will need the independence to care for my children without her. I have to do it. I must do it! I need all the strength I can have to do this. I have to move forward without her in my life!

I feel some feelings about what is happening, but I need to stop those feeling now for my kids sake.

W and I had an argument last night, and I told her that I am done with her, and I am sick of her treating me like sh!t. I finally spoke up and told her that I am don't want to be with her anymore, and I have no respect for her. I told her that is is nothing more than a common cheater and liar.

Again it felt good to say. I believe I have nothing at this point to lose.

Well tonight she came home, and I just ignored her like she is not even there and spend time with the kids. I do not even really acknowledge her presence.

She actually asked me if I wanted something at McDonalds, and I declined politely. It was amazing that she even asked me.

I started paperwork with my attorney, and it is going great, and I will have it sent to W in the next couple of days. My attorney is so fantastic. I am glad I have her. I am at ease, and she makes me feel so good. It is just different from the other attornies I have spoke with. I go back tomorrow to catch up on the paperwork and make sure it is on time. I am so relieved to have her.

Well tomorrow I have another interview with the same company for a different position. It is going so well there. I am so excited about it. I hope to have a job very soon.

Wish me luck!!!

I went to my interview today at the same company my W works at. I did not tell her I had an interview there. It is in a different building, so I thought the chances of me running into her were very slim. I did see her walking up to the building. She stopped to talk to someone, so I went to the resteroom, so she would not see me. I was worried she would know I was there. I dodged that bullet. It got my adrenaline pumping for the interview. It was my best interview yet. I feel very confident that I will get the job.

I meet with my attorney today. I always tired thinking about it.

So far, today is going well. I hope to keep it that way.

Congrats on your job interview, you could not have handled yourself any better.

I like your attitude.

You sound strong.

You sound like you know what you need.

Don't settle for anything less.

DLS,

Thank you.

I believe I did a great job today. I was so worried that W would see me, but she is preoccupied with her self that she did not even notice I was there.

I am so glad about today.

Why are you afraid of her? This is not the strength and confidence you need to convey. This was a opportunity to shine. Be aware and be on.