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My hope was that when she came out of the fog it would help with reconciliation and trust building.

She called and pinned me down. I should not have answered her call and just waited.

If you are doing LRT you should NOT be taking her calls... She cheats on you and expects you to be there when she wants to talk?

Ignore the call...

The idea is for YOU to act publically supportive of your marriage by exposing her affair and encouraging everyone to support the rebuilding of the marriage including your wife... Other than that do NOT engage her... If she catches you, use the SAME SCRIPT EACH TIME.. the confrontation script as you always do... stop cheating, rebuild the marriage, you are hurting everyone, etc..

EACH time she confronts YOU, you say that and EXIT the convo...

IGNORE her phone calls.. she's baiting you and manipulating you and your marriage into the toilet... time to go on the offensive Bunker

BB, you were asking about my exposure letter. This is the actual letter I used for exposure. Most of the ideas in it came from Allen. I sent it to many of OM's FB friends and many church friends:

"[OM] is pursuing my wife to have an affair with her since July of last year. My home that was once happy is now wracked with tension, stress, and guilt. My wife and my children are miserable. I ask that you support my wife, my children, and my home and press [OM] to leave my home and family alone. This is a terrible thing to do to innocent children.

Thank you in advance for your help."

And most of the people I sent it to are supporting me, but there were a couple who doubted the truth of it. I just explained it to them in more detail.

Always try to include evidence too guys... that letter is fantastic, but if you have evidence to include with it, it carries a lot more weight