Also...recently read the Love Languages book. Good stuff, but I don't know if I can apply it with a W who doesn't love me. I looked at the question sheet that tells you what LL your W speaks, but I can't imagine she would go along with filling it out at this point. I recently picked up "His Needs Her Needs" and have "No More Mr. Nice Guy" coming in the mail. Looking forward to that one since I feel like I've been castrated in my M.
