I'm thinking there is always a nice place for a wine fridge. How about right next to my bed? LoL
JEFF -
Ha! You ARE motivated to make this a success! It is a vision...
So, lots of in and out today. Looking at another house, WORK, grocery shopping (any volunteers to do this, please?!?!?), and then S13 has another soccer game out of town (only one more weekday out-of-town league game left after this!).
I have a fantastic weekend planned.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
One of the funniest posts I have EVER read on this board was a piece of advice SteveMcQueen gave a new poster. This person (a man) had cheated on his W multiple times and the W finally left and the H just didn't know what to do. SteveM says... "I don't man, start begging!"
LOL!
Glad you are so happy and moving ahead! Your H will be begging one day and man, did he ever miss out!
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
- That's called "Getting a Life"! you don't do it to get your spouse back, you do it to get YOUR life back.
Ding, ding!! Rob, you are absolutely right. I was just saying to Mind that I think I've fallen off the DB wagon. Even though I'm in a better place and my D is happening, it is no excuse to stop GALing, keeping up a PMA, and doing 180's. You taught me that. I do it for me.
Originally Posted By: mindfull
He already did his "version" of begging... naked.
That would never happen in my sitch. I have absolutely no idea what I would say or do.. I think total shock would take over.