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Please anyone?

When i went home for lunch i held her from behind and she asked me what was wrong. I told her nothing, that i just wanted to hold her. she turned around and we kissed and hugged.

I dont know if I should be doing these things to gain her attraction back or if i should be doing something completely different.

All I do know is that I love her, I want to marry her, and I want our relationship to grow stronger and get better again.

Lost to GF: I love you, I want to marry you and I want our relationship to grow stronger and get better. I am willing to do the things that will make that a reality. Are you?

If she says 'yes', Lost, if I were you, I would go to xyz jeweler TODAY to buy the ring you can afford, put it on her finger and make the appt. with the JOP.

If she says 'no', tell her you will need a formal agreement with her to make sure you don't lose any contact with your daughter. Other than that, y'all need to go your separate ways. Tell her that. No more limbo for either of you. Fish...or cut bait.

Greek

Wow!

That basically is an ultimatum.

No - it a road map for how you will go forward. Put another way ~~~ we will either move forward together, or apart, but we will not stay where we are.


Greek

Greek,

Sorry for the hijack, but I have a question about forgiveness I wanted to ask you. Could stop by my thread and we can discuss it there.

Thanks.

Today is one of the kids' birthdays. Do you think that should prevent me from asking?

I would hate to risk adult business ruining a child's birthday celebration. Who knows which way this will go - let the child have the day. Best, in my opinion, to wait ... sleep on it, look for a better time tomorrow. Pray for peace. Then speak.
Greek

my seven year old can play modern warfare 2 like it is his calling in life. the neighbor girls dig it. yet, he never shares the controller with them. lol. he then gets them all to play army in the back yard, or they are hiding in the tree fort.

if i could get two twenty years old's to straddle me next to the pool for killing Nazis, I'd think I died and went to heaven. But it don't work that way for me.

observing my son I have noticed 2 things, he has a swagger that can set the world around him at ease, and he has this maleness that has these little girls fighting amongst each other as to who is going to be his girlfriend this week.

libido. figure out what it takes to get your libido to the point the two of you are doing it eleven times a week. you are both still young. before you know it you will be relying on little blue pills. and that is when the real trouble begins ....

Well I went ahead and talked to her lastnight. She couldnt give me an answer. She said she needed the weekend to sort things out, so she was going to take the kids and her to their grandma's.