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You miss ME!!!! LOLOL

Lets do some "over the phone" therapy. We both seem to need it...
M

Yes! Its true! A chat would be lovely. I am out early the next few nights, but home later.

Its a shame you cant be at my Hen do and meet everyone and everyone whose heard so much about you, meet you! I have rented a fabulous, pure English country cottage, all beamed ceilings, inglenook fireplaces, fantastic views across the Cotswolds (lovely part of England) and oldy worldy beautiful villages nestling in valleys.. where we are going horse trekking !! And then back to the cottage for facepacks, manicures, dinner, champagnes and cheesey music

OMG Ali! That sounds like so much fun.

Enjoy it!

Ditto!

Ali,

Which part of the Cotswolds will you be trekking in? I trailer my horse over there sometimes and there is a fantastic ride down to a Roman villa, amongst many other lovely rides.

That sounds like a lovely time. When is the date in July? I am getting so excited for you.

kat

Saffie - is that Chedworth?? I love it there ! Lucky you. We are trekking in valleys near Slad/Bisley. I nearly booked a ride from Stanton stables (my favourite Cotswold village!) but I couldnt match up with a cottage big enough for everyone.

Girls, thanks.. date is 10th July Kat.. and I still havent got a dress!!!

I decided I was going to be brave and ask the seamstress to change the fabric, but when I phoned her the day after my fitting, she had left for a cruise ! She's not back until Sunday.. 4 weeks to go..

Jupitor...is it really supposed to be good for everyone now?

Just under a month Ali!! I am so excited.

kat

Oh I'm not sure Kat, but certainly for Ariens! (its just gone into Aries). Oh and Venus moved into Leo, so thats good for them, Venus and Jupiter are the two greater benefics, as they call them.

I'm feeling a bit low still. The black dog has come sniffing back around by this weekend, seems because bf stopped taking his ADs a week ago (trying to wean off them perhaps). It was a beautiful sunny weekend and we had lots of fun plans, but he was quiet, low, unenthusiastic.. etc. He reassured me it was NOT me, it was him and how he gets, for no reason. I made him take a tablet. I feel for him, but I'm a happy, optimistic person normally (as he said) so I did find it disheartening, especially as I realised at the weekend we are again, not pregnant. So thats 7 months of targeted trying and nothing.

I lined up the IVF as a precaution, but this weekend I realised we are going to need it afterall which upsets me. I wanted it to just happen naturally.. but as we all know here, we cant always get what we want..

Well, the seamstress rang and is happy to make changes, so I am seeing her today. Phew!

So sorry about the troubles. Why is bf trying to wean off the AD's? I know neither of you esecially likes taking meds but in his case it seems prudent to stay on them for a while longer. Honestly, there are people that must stay on them the rest of their lives because their depression is not situational, but is caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain that can only be helped by meds.

On a lighter note......what kind of fabric are you going to change to?