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Sandi, i know what youre saying is true but it hurts so bad. i'm scared i won't find anyone i like as much as him, i want o have a family and i miss being a wife so much. it really hurts to get rejected so badly.
do you guys think he'll come back at any point? like when i'm over him?
should i push for the divorce?

did everyone give up on me
i'm going to try to hurry the dirvorce along.

Is this what you really want to do?

Be sure of what you really want to do. Yes, it's true that some couples can work things out after a divorce, but if you truly want your husband back, then you need to follow the DB techniques and have patience. I've been separted over 18 months now, but am still trying my damndest to save my marriage.

well, aolt of people on here have told me that he is a womanizer and that I should try to let him go. did you guys read my thread competely? if so, what shoudl i do in my particular case?

It's not so much what we think you should do, it's what you think you should do, what feels best for you. If you feel that divorce is the best option for you, then pursue it. If you feel that trying to save your marriage is the best option for you, then pursue that. What do you, deep in your heart, want to do?

deep in my heart, the longer i stay away from him, the more i feel like he wasn't very good to me and most likely won't be. only now he thinks he can leave me, beat me and still havbe me grovel.
of course i don't want a divorce, but he filed and he hurts me all the time. i haven;t been taking his calls because all he does is manipulate and hurt me. yes i want my husband back, but what would i have to do in my sitch? try to just be around whenever he is willing to see me just seems to make him drift further away and try to be friendly to try to save his precious hide...

he wants to have dinner monday... should i??? i'm confused

abq, I decided to read your posts after you responded to mine. Thank you for not judging me.

I am sorry you are in the position you are in and it certainly seems that you deserve better. Maybe it's time to stop listening to your heart and use common sense instead. Good luck.

I'd lean toward not. You seem to be fragile, emotional and too unsteady. Judging by what you've said in this thread and the other.

Maybe work on put more emotional distance in place before agreeing to me H.