Too much concern over acronyms. It doesnt matter who is ABC or who is DEF or for that matter GHI. What matters is you learn its not your job to fix him. You are only responsible for your own happiness.
Are you happy?
What you have is a husband getting high and beating off to jpegs of strippers.
Vocabulary lesson: Synergy : the working together of two things (muscles or drugs for example) to produce an effect greater than the sum of their individual effects.
If you are looking for a stallion, dont go looking in the barn where someone is milking the cows.
