I dont know your whole situation with the restraining order but
Just take care of yourself I would explain to neice..They understand the craziness of the MLC and if you have to leave the wedding, maybe you can celebrate with her another day I know its difficult and out of the norm but with MLC everything is out of the norm we try to keep things as "Normal" as possible for out kids and its out of our hands
one more thing just my opinion the OW didnt "get " anything but a damaged half of a man/ an insane man we had the man in his best my xh would never have picked a wife like OW in his twenties she is TRAsh--and all she got was an older man who lost everything he left for her with nothing no job, no kids,bad health, addicted to pills- a total mess and she M him what a prize I also believe if he "woke " up he would leave her in a minute I would have never picked a man like him as he is today peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
you are both VERY right, but she does get my family (in-laws). The only family i've ever known. I still see them all and talk to them all but rarely, and it's now different. She gets the everyday stuff, the holidays, the weekends doing stuff together, the birthdays, the "WEDDINGS". etc... that probably hurts the most.
was theotherhalf M43 H43 M22 T25 MLC/OW bomb 4/07 Hmoved out 8/07 D6/09 Still trying to accept and move on...
my xh would never have picked a wife like OW in his twenties she is TRAsh--and all she got was an older man who lost everything he left for her with nothing no job, no kids,bad health, addicted to pills- a total mess and she M him what a prize I also believe if he "woke " up he would leave her in a minute I would have never picked a man like him as he is today
Ditto peace, ditto
was theotherhalf M43 H43 M22 T25 MLC/OW bomb 4/07 Hmoved out 8/07 D6/09 Still trying to accept and move on...
The bachlorette party was Saturday. They have pictures on fb. OW is in a few. Looks like they had a good time. The wedding is this Sat. I've decided that I better not go. To big a risk. I can't trust them.
It's going to be a rough week folks. I am so p*ssed, hurt, sad, etc... Why?why?why?
was theotherhalf M43 H43 M22 T25 MLC/OW bomb 4/07 Hmoved out 8/07 D6/09 Still trying to accept and move on...
God I hate FB! That's how the OW outed the A to me. My WH, although I already 'knew' in my heart, wouldn't make the break.It became a war of words between my daughters and OW. She is about as mature as a 14 year old. All the advice I can give is to keep in mind that the best revenge is living well. If it's just TOO uncomforable, then don't go; BUT, sometimes the things that we dread the most turn in our favor. You just have to decide how that relates to your particular sitch. She may be 'the new otherhalf', but she knows EVERYONE there knows exactly how that came about. Hugs to you.
I'm not good. I'm barely holding all together. This is pretty much killing me. I've looked at those pictures and I can't understand how I can be so easliy replaced. I thought these people really cared about me. And now I'm seeing them have a blast with the woman my husband gave my life to. And I'm going to miss my nieces wedding because X made sure I couldn't go. I really really don't understand, and it hurts like hell.
was theotherhalf M43 H43 M22 T25 MLC/OW bomb 4/07 Hmoved out 8/07 D6/09 Still trying to accept and move on...
