I will try soon. I don't have a digital camera or a cell phone right now, but with my next paycheck I'm going to invest in a cell phone so I have something in the car, since I'm driving so much now.
Well, went to church today and was good, and I did a little work, but basically goofed off this weekend. I have homework for work tomorrow and then an early night sleep. I'm so incredibly boring!!!!
Hope everybody else had an exciting weekend; I'll have to work on that in future, but no more nightclubs....
Thanks, Mish. Wow, busy here lately!!! I'm lurking on threads, but not much time lately. I did mess up today. X sent me some more nasty emails, and I had a weak moment and emailed back and responded to his crap and defended myself. In one, he asked me to work with him rather than against him?!?! WTH???????? I shouldn't bother b/c it will just make him worse most likely, and I know there is no reason to defend myself.
My job is going good, but poor D10 is sick and has a little fever. X had also promised me on my mornings with the kids I could drop her off on my way to work and he would take her to the bus stop. She told me tonight that he wasn't home when she got there, although showed up in time to take her to the bus. I'm sure he was at OW's house. I have never let her be alone ever as she is too young imo. I enrolled her in the before school program at her new daycare today so it won't happen again on my mornings at least.
Mad at X, but also mad at myself for having a weak moment today....
As said, we all have weak moments. One thing tho, you can always look at them in a positive way: even tho it sucks to have them, they get shorter and shorter each time.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
Guess what? The principal I applied with for the instructional aide job called tonight and offered me a job! The prek came open and she said it like I should have known she was going to hire me! I told her I was so sorry but I had already started my new job. She told me if any time in the future I wanted a job to apply there again. D10 is bummed, b/c it would have had the same school/vacation schedule as hers, but it didn't have benefits, and I have a feeling legally I'd be in trouble for accepting a lower-paying job, and I already made a commitment to my job.
Nice to know that if I don't pass probation (the whole first year) at my new job it sounds like I'd be able to get a job there. So more good news I think; I wish they'd called a month ago though!!!!
Good chatting as always. Yep you are sounding ready to go to bed earlier and earlier. It must be the job! So glad that all these opportunities are coming out of the woodwork...what a great ego boost!
Don't worry about H, his ickiness showed itself a long time ago. I don't see him changing anytime soon unless he wants something. In that case, keep your guard up.
Have a great day. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Thanks, NC, it is an ego boost, and kind of a relief b/c it lessens the pressure of being on probation and worrying about if I got fired. Thanks, Kat. I think I also was so tired b/c I came down with D10's cold. My sore throat turned into that today. I just took a nap with D10 though--she's still sleeping!!!
Ok, latest fight with X is that he wants to set D10's ot appts on Fri. am, even though he has her Monday-Wed. mornings currently. I think just to be the usual a$$ he is. My idea is to email him, fine, if you insist on setting them for my mornings (the past 2 years of separation, I always set their therapies for my days with them), but say you can then pick her up at her daycare from 7:05 to 7:45 when she will be there if he would like (he's on her pickup list). It's 5 minutes away from his house, so not too much of an inconvenience for him, and then I don't have to worry about figuring out which of my mornings he has plans for and not allowing him to inconvenience me on the few mornings I have her. Ideas on this?
