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BobbiJo.... tell me what you like and you can sniff away!

I might like to weigh in on fragrances and scents here, too, if I may. For instance, I love the smell of brownies, margaritas, and fries. Do they make cologne for men in those scents?

I also like the way puppy breath (NOT dog breath) smells, but I bet no man is interested in wearing that. Just a guess.

Honestly? Soap. A shower-fresh guy is always nice...

I really couldn't tell you the names but I have encountered some good smelling guys while out and about. Which is a step up from smelling my kids' sweaty heads when they sneak in my bed!

Hey Fergie Ferg....just watched Glee and the preview for next week is guest star Neil Patrick Harris. Sweet flashback to high school days and he is rocking a fierce mullet! The ladies have rockin' perms, too!

NPH is a god.
Neil. Patrick. Harris. ... Yo.

TEN, I think you really need a date. We have sunk to new lows...

But, we are truly one... brownies, margaritas and fries? YUM, YUM and more YUM

The best part? He and Mr. Schuester are doing a duet of Aerosmith's "Dream On"

Oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah.

Puppy breath? Yeah.... no. I'll stick to smelling like a pseudo-girl.

Actually maybe you are on to something. Maybe I could pull off a puppy breath scent. Yeah. I wonder how it would be received. Hmm..

--Fergie

Fergie -

Hey, I have a new thread. In case you would get lost... It's called... Mindfull... Time to Proceed w/the Big D.

Puppy breath scent received? I think Oreo will love it.

Wow. All the way back to page 9. I guess that happens when you get busy.

Updates to my sitch: The stbxW and I have been emailing financial breakdowns of how to divide property/debt. I'm not sure how productive it is, since there is no way I'm just going to say "Sure W. Let's just do what you want." Mainly it gives me some numbers to run by a lawyer. I have a lawyer recommendation and I'll give him a call this week. I'm sure I'll have some homework to do. And I'll have some numbers to run by him. I also want to find out if there is any benefit to filing as joint petitioners, since we are the super cordial D couple.

Zero contact otherwise. It is not like I am actively DB'ing, it is just I don't care. One thing that torqued me off this week was I have received no contact from her family for over a month. No emails or calls asking how I'm doing. Nothing. And this is a family I was close to? meh.

I've been keeping super busy. Mentally I've been great. Physically the crappy weather kept me off the bike most of the week. I really need to get back on the bike. On the bright side, my BFF was sick all this week with the stomach flu. So he will be out of biking shape too. I won't get hammered by him too bad when I go back.

Friday was date night and was amazing, as always.

The band has it's first parade of the season on Sunday. It is usually a fun one. The weather is supposed to be great and I'm sure there will be some drinking involved. Plus my BFF lives in the town we are playing at, so I'll get to hang out with him.

--Fergie

So you had fun with the hot blonde, eh? Sounds awesome. Hoping I can do the same (except he doesn't have to be blonde, I'm not picky!).

Too bad her family has not kept in contact since you used to be close. However, it's probably going to make things easier post-divorce. In my case my MIL still calls fairly often and inserts herself and her plans into my life--or at least tries to. At least you won't thave to deal with that! Still, in times like this we do find out who our friends are, don't we??

Enjoy the day Fergie. Think I'll tackle a long run followed by a massage...