Welcome to piecing, CC! I haven't seen your other thread, but from reading your summary, it seems you belong here. Keep up the good work! And stay patient!
Do you belong to flylady? If not, you probably think I'm nuts!
Have a good w/e.
Mockers2
"Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
Friedrich Nietzsche
I used to subscribe to Flylady, but got overwhelmed with the emails. So I stopped. I actually have the book and am trying now to implement the ideas. It all goes along with the "new Cupcake" as my H would say.
I have followed your thread and wish you well. Another success story! Keep on keepin on.
Leaving work to go pick up daughter at cheerleading. Just hanging out and reading boards until time to go. H called after he dropped D off at practice and talked all the way until he got home...chit chat stuff...then...drumroll....he said I need to tell you something..."You know I Love you"...I just got teary eyed...didn't say it back...just said "no, I don't know that"....He said "I do love you". Oh my... Won't be on the boards this weekend...don't have computer hooked up at home - been avoiding it because s13 likes to spend all his time IM'ing and it gets old....maybe I should go ahead and hook it up anyway.
Also, he did call me a few weeks ago wanting to talk about how he had "f***ed everything up, how he thought I was the root of his unhappiness but that he now realizes that I wasn't, that he misses me, etc. I just continue to ride the waves and wait for this nightmare to all be over.
Cupcake! He said I love you...yeah! Now, about the above...he is on the right path. Could you interest him or have you already interested him in your DB or DR books?
He might be very interested!
Maybe a short R talk that focuses more on how we all get happier when we reach inside ourselves to find happiness and then share that happiness with the ones we love....
An ILY!!!! That is wonderful! Keep up the good work!
Mockers2
"Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet
"That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
Friedrich Nietzsche