CW- so your H was in the passenger's seat and looking away? And he did come and get the papers from the garage?
CW you are always so thoughtful, positive and sweet when you post on my (and others') threads! But didn't seeing him with OW make you angry???? grrrr! Yeah, I know, it shouldn't, but we are only human!
And what a coward to hide from you!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
The papers are gone! It must have been her vehicle and he was in the passenger seat, kinda scrunched down, looking the other way, with his arm up holding his hat like he was scratching his head and that is a typical H avoidance move!!! OW was looking the other way too. Of course there is no way to know if she knew it was me waiting to turn...doesn't matter!
I guess I AM upset that he does not have enough respect for me and our neighbors to not bring her to my home after I asked him not to, but it didn't upset me as much as it did the first time he brought her...I think the fact that he has filed for a D and that the kids know about her now and I am more detached helps.
Yes, he is a coward. My big, strong H that I always felt safe, secure and protected by is a coward...yuck He has lost a bunch of weight too so is smaller, but he just looks so "small"....
And thankyou for the compliment NM!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
When H had his stint put in in Nov., they put him on a low fat/low salt diet so some of the weightloss is due to that but the new smaller jeans that I had gotten him for Christmas are now really baggy on him...
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
When H had his stint put in in Nov., they put him on a low fat/low salt diet so some of the weightloss is due to that but the new smaller jeans that I had gotten him for Christmas are now really baggy on him...
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
OP, I asked because I wondered if CW's H had lost weight in an attempt to turn back the clock therefore being intentional or if she had noticed it after he had left.
CW, appears the sitch is affecting your H... Also sounds like he might be a bit ashamed of ow.
My H doesn't seem to have lost much weight but he looks very haggard and old.
Well girls, my H initially lost weight (pre-bomb/already in the affair) that I suspect was to look better, younger....and now continues to loose weight that he can not afford to loose. He is soooo thin that he looks fragile and his face is kind of hollow, and he looks really tired and older.
CW you are handling seeing the two of them together very well. I know that I would be very upset if that happened to me.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
