Fergie if you don't mind me saying ex's never get off Scott free, I honestly believe and hope the guilt catches up with them some time!
If you are pals with mindfull you obviously are full of fun and have a great sense of humour Hun, there are lots of ladies out there waiting for you! Her loss there gain!
Off to look at tartans so I picture you, do you have a fondness for decent whisky too, obviously single malts only!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
The brunette angel is here! Saw that the redhead has already popped in today. I am so pleased to be a member of this outstanding trio of brilliant hotness.
What can we do to make your life better, Fergie? We accept dangerous missions that involve disguises and rolling around on the ground.
Hiya Number 8.
Ahh.. the rolling around. Is that the shoulder-first spy roll? Or the cat-fighting log roll? You already have the spy name... sort of "Get Smart"esque...
(When you said "rolling around on the ground", for some reason the Ann Margret chocolate/baked beans/rolling around scene from "Tommy" immediately came to mind...LOL... I need therapy).
Fergie, I haven't decided on the best roll since Charlie hasn't called on the special phone to inform us of our mission yet. It's possible that I won't have to roll at all but shimmy along the ground or army crawl under any number of things that have been precariously perched in an effort to keep me out of some unknown location.
On second thought, maybe I'd be better suited to drive the hot convertible. We're going to need a getaway car driver so that we can get back to base, and I don't really want to get my disguise dirty. I'm behind on laundry as it is.
Is this the part where Mind and Fergie have that... You log off... No YOU log off... No YOU log off... conversation?? Or is it the, "No YOU'RE cuter" argument?
That happens privately...
Originally Posted By: mindfull
You now hold close to your heart a true gift, my friend. I wouldn't wish this kind of abandonment on you, but since you've experience it, imagine what you can truly give yourself, and someone else someday.
I know mindfull. I think you know my feelings on this.... Rob and especially you have helped me with this..
Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
What Mind said. I remind myself of those things when I get down...no matter what XH says, I KNOW that I tried my very best. I know I was willing to do the real, hard work. And I know that even if the problems pre-bomb/abandonment were created by both of us, the decision to just give up and leave was his 100%. I am sure most of that is the same for you.
Yep... ^^^this^^^ My only recent interactions with the stbxW seemed to be she would be willing to "work" at trying to forgive me for my transgressions... but she doesn't want to give me false hope. I say F-that. She walked away from your M. She had a PA. If she can't live up to my new standards I've set for myself, I'm better off starting fresh.
Originally Posted By: Lost Rabbit
If you are pals with mindfull you obviously are full of fun and have a great sense of humour Hun, there are lots of ladies out there waiting for you! Her loss there gain!
That is tough to reconcile. But I'm warming up to it fairly quickly. It certainly helps to hear it frequently...
I am sleepy too, Mind. Wish we could have nap time...think the boss would frown on that...used to have guy friends in college I could nap with. Miss that!!
Back to you Fergie. I so identify w/the BS you are getting from your wife. My H has told me he just CANNOT forgive (I say WILL not, he insists CAN not, whatever) me for not supporting him enough in the past and letting him down. Nevermind the porn, affairs, strippers, etc that I was willing to forgive....
So, yeah, when they say they would have to work to forgive us??
Eff them sounds about right.
~BBJ /Really her loss and some other chica is going to be really lucky //Is it Regimental Friday??
So I played police memorial with some band guys and it was raining and cold. My hands were like blocks of ice afterwards and my gear smells like a wet sheep. But the tuning was acceptable, given the circumstances.
The stbxW emailed me back some of the financials for our property split. It seems fairly resonable, so far. I don't have any reason to distrust her numbers. But I'm going to run them by a lawyer first. What has been anyones experience with divorce mediation? Does it work?
I'm going out tonight. It's Friday date night. Time to have some fun.
I didn't mediate, however my ex never bothered to get a lawyer. I wrote everything up with some (minimal) input from ex, then took it to my lawyer. He drafted it and we both signed it. Done deal. Only 3 face to face sit-downs with my attorney and ex never even saw my attorney just signed and gave me back his copy of stuff.
No fair, all of you date night people!!! When I visit Mind and she brings me to Madison, you better find a fun friend to set me up with!
Off to look at tartans so I picture you, do you have a fondness for decent whisky too, obviously single malts only!
Ohhh... single malts. One of my favorite topics. Right now my favorite (and a lot of other people) all around single malt is Highland Park 12yr. But if I want something more "after dinner" or winter time, Lagavulin 16yr is nice and oily/smokey, but kind of expensive. Otherwise Aberlour is a nice heavier sherry finished whiskey without being too "sherried up" like a Glendronach (IMO). I used to buy Knockando (which was way under valued at about $30 a bottle), but it is no longer imported to the US. That was very light and nice. I'll buy Glen Moray (as it's replacement) for something reasonably priced, but with a more peaty taste. And I almost never buy Macallan (or *The* Macallan, if you are picky), although I like their range.
Oh. You didn't ask me what my favorite scotch whiskey was? Sorry.
--Fergie /What hard liquor is everyone else drinking?
