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Fabulous time! Just got home (1:30 a.m.) and it was great! Got to hang out with 3 guys I went to high school with, GG and the birthday boy and one other, plus the other guys' wives and couple other people.

Was formally introduced to Rock band. Kicked butt on vocals on a couple songs, but drums? Not so much...

Oh and he walked me out to the car. Got a smallllllll kiss. But still, it was a kiss and I did not want to vomit, so I got that going for me... He texted within 2 minutes after I left asking me to call and tell him I made it home safely...

Oddly enough Dan felt the need to text me knowing I would be out at a party...

He asked me to call him to talk about Nathan's medicine? I just texted, "What do you need?" cause I was not going to call him. He was concerned Nathan said he didn't have his allergy/asthma medicine this morning? (Dan came briefly to the carnival and hung with the kids) I replied that Nathan took his meds at school this afternoon. He replied again good bc he was worried about nathan's watery eyes....whatever!

Seriously he knew I was going out so he had to text me?

Hmm....GG just texted again that he had wanted to follow me home in his car but knew it would be bad etiquette...ya think? I just replied "Yeah prob best you didn't but I had a great evening"...

He wants to take me golfing and teach me....he went to a PGA school of some kind in Temecula, CA and loves teaching people how to golf...

OK so tired I gotta go to bed!

One other thing. Although it is small....several times throughout the evening, GG would touch me. Sounds simple. But wow that has been a long time. Just like as he would walk past he would squeeze my shoulder. Or if he was standing behind me he would put his arm around me or rub my back. Little things.

Nothing too forward...nothing inappropriate...but after 2 years without a real 'human touch' I definitely noticed.....

BBJ - Just catching up. You are so darn busy. Glad you had a good time at the party!!! Rock Band Rocks! Dan's still a schmuck. A KISS?

Ugh! My head is telling me I had a few more than I needed last night, yuck! Haven't drank more than 2 beers in quite a while...

Got another text from GG right before bed. "Didn't mean anything bad by that (the prev one about following me home) just had a great time hanging out didn't want it to end. :)"

Ok gotta go get something to drink and pick up my kidlets from mom and dads...

We got a little thunder last night and some hard rain but nothing too major--dang! Eventually we'll get a good storm, I can't wait...

And Mind, yes a tiny one...

What just like a peck? Sorry about the lack of romantic storms. You'll get one soon.

kat

Yeah! I love the text me to let me know you made it. It was one of my first signs that FFG was just that into me.

So is he a HGG?

Yes, small peck, nothing earth shaking granted we were standing in the yard of Birthday Boy Friend's house as GG walked me to my car...

However SC in all honesty I think if I had found him super-hot I would have said screw it and gone for more...

He is nice looking, not unattractive by any means, just not the type I would call 'hottt'....the cutest guy there was qb and point guard for my class, he moved here our senior year, however he is quite happily married and I am glad he is, he deserves it!

So anyway it was a good time. I would like to go out with him again to see what he is like without the rest of the crew around. I am not sure if it was such a fun night because of him, or because of the group. As I mentioned it was 4 different guys I went to high school with, their wives, some other people from our town that I hadn't seen in 5 or more years, etc. So it felt kind of like a fun reunion...

No real news....

Tired...

Bad headache, maybe cluster headache, if not just sinus/allergy crap...centered around my eye socket and behind my eyeball but occasionally the back of my head. Hope the neuralgia isn't coming back in a new, 'fun' way... That would mean going back on Cymbalta and as I have been off any meds for 7 weeks I do not want to go back!

My oldest sis' dog died today. He was 14...she cannot have children so he was her baby. She's been up 3 days straight looking after him. He had congestive heart failure among other issues, she is a nurse and was even giving him Lasix (spelling???) on more than one occasion. Ugh... To me he was just a dog, I don't get the obsession but to her he was her baby...

I think I need a massage or a chiropractor for this headache...

Watch Marley & Me. Dogs can really grab a hold of you. I think it's the blind loyalty thing. A dog rarely has a bad day. He/she ALWAYS is happy to see you.

This is from a non-dog person. I didn't want one. STBXW promised the girls they could get one and in 2005 we got a puppy.

Funny thing is I was the one waking up every night to let it out to go potty. Until D11 started taking her for walks in the last two months, I was the only one who took her out for exercise.

So the damn thing misses me terribly. She gets this awful sad look when I drop the girls off and don't take her with me.

In a roundabout way it's kind of funny. STBXW wants a D -- and neither her daughters nor her dog want one.