i'd call in sick to work. take all those boxes you packed up and the cat or the dog and its food over to her parents house and tell her dad he can have her back, she lies, openly disrespects me and is involved with men over the internet. I am done with her. then drive away as her heels sink into the front lawn.
i'd call in sick to work. take all those boxes you packed up and the cat or the dog and its food over to her parents house and tell her dad he can have her back, she lies, openly disrespects me and is involved with men over the internet. I am done with her. then drive away as her heels sink into the front lawn.
^^^ exactly
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
man that's frustrating. I also found out tonight that she's actually involved with 2 OM online/phone.
Both of them from the last time this happened. I do know 100% that she did stop talking to them before, but has started back up again with all 3 going at the same time.
This has happened B4? Just a word to the wise, when things like this repeat themselves, there is often something else going on that may be related to you ina very indirect way.
There is a pattern here and it is time for it to be broken or at least for you to be out of this until it can be seriously addressed. On the car issue, everyone is right and you could be screwed bigtime because you knowingly (and knowingly is the operative word) allowed her to drive without a valid license. So, ending that as you have indicated is a smart, self-protection issue.
Pay the mortgage and if you wish to keep the house and you can afford it, buy her out. That is what I did with my ex once I realized that she was not going to give up her EA. Credit worthiness is important in these days is important.
I don't know what the separation/divorce laws are in your area, but ours required a 1-year separation prior to granting a divorce. Divorce for cause might be different where you are. But that meant no cohabitation and no sleeping together, otherwise it 'restarts' the clock. One Saturday morning eleven months into our separation, while our son was at gymnastics, my ex showed up at the doorstep of 'our' house (I kept it with the agreement to buy her out if we divorced). She said that she was missing me and that it was 'hard to love two men for different reasons' (she never elaborated). If that was bait, I did not take it. We talked briefly and I told her I had to go pick up our son.
Just be aware that even as bad as things might seem, there may come a time somewhere 6-12 months down the road where she wants to "come back." If she wants to come back before that, I would be inclined to say absolutely not (neither you, nor her, will have had the time to sort out the issues that both of you are dealing with and/or avoiding).
The conditions for reconciliation should be absolutely clear and that may be very difficult to establish. For your own wellbeing and peace of mind, they should absolutely clear for both of you.
Just as an aside, has anything like this happened to you before with previous relationships or is this the first one where something like this has happened?
The Captain Kobayashi Maru
Last sex: 04/06/1997 Last attempt: 11/11/1997 W Issues "No Means No" Declaration: 11/11/1997 W chooses to terminate sex 05/1998 I gained 60, then lost 85 pounds. Start running again (marathons)
