It's human nature, we only appreciate what we have when it's gone.
My H tells me this too. H says that that is why maybe we should get a legal S so that he can see what it's like without me.
that's fine just as long as he knows that when you're gone and he realizes this and wants you back, it won't be his decision, you'll have to consult with your boyfriend and ask him how he feels about your husband's "awakening" ;-)
yup! lol
I don't think he realizes what it would really be like. He says things like "maybe you'll find someone who'll be able to love you like you want to be loved"
He would go a day without emailing/texting/calling me to ask me to do something or for some info he needs or to do something for him. Does he think that I'll continue being his personal assistant if we S? I don't think so.
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson
I had a response, but I just erased. I think I am probably in too snippy of a mood. I'll rewrite later. I'm just distracted with Mindfull's sitch right now.
--Fergie
That's about the nicest thing I've heard in a long time. HUGS!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Not much going on in my sitch, but here is an update anyway.
Week 2 down of the "Zero Contact" plan and doing fine. I wonder once in a while what the W is up to, but quickly dismiss it. I've been more on a disgusted/mad kick thinking about her lately. I've also been thinking about investigating the A, and seeing if it still going on. If it is, I would say screw this sitch, with the way I've been feeling about her recently.
Still GAL'ing. I started my first golf lesson yesterday. Very fun. The owner walked by our class and said "We have a hitter there" about me. And here I thought golf was hard.
I also started running on the treadmill, trying to catch up to Pearl and Mindfull. I'm still buying new clothes and I picked up some new cologne. My neighbor said yesterday I "had an aura". Uh.. thanks, bro.
I'm eating better, looking better, feeling better. Now I just need to start cleaning and working on the house.
Thanks guys for the help. Although I'm sure it isn't close to being over.
I got Japanese Cherry Blossom a perfume put out by Bath & Body. I also like Cashmere Mist by Donna Karan, but I wasn't close to a place that sold it yesterday!
I get migraines fairly often (every 4-6 weeks) and sinus headaches so I am very picky about perfume. I kept noticing my d's teacher smelled good so I asked her what she was wearing and it was the Cherry Blossom. Good stuff...I gravitate toward vanilla/sandalwood-ish stuff (like Obsession) so it was a good departure.
And random thought--I hate any of the ones that profess to smell like the ocean, because they don't!
Although it has been years, my favorite incense was sandalwood. But I love vanilla. The Reeses peanut butter cup of great smells that smell great together.
Although it has been years, my favorite incense was sandalwood. But I love vanilla. The Reeses peanut butter cup of great smells that smell great together.
Mf: Hi!
--Fergie
Thanks Ferg! Hopefully guys around here will have the same opinion...
