@ luvless - they may lie but ultimately me obsessing over it won't do me any good...and that's what i do when i think about it.
This is a good thing to keep in mind.
If he is cheating, all you can really do at this point is attempt to verify it; and I'm not sure if you're ready to do that yet. And if he's not cheating, all of the constant snooping will further erode your relationship.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement