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Originally Posted By: pandora
@ luvless - they may lie but ultimately me obsessing over it won't do me any good...and that's what i do when i think about it.


This is a good thing to keep in mind.

If he is cheating, all you can really do at this point is attempt to verify it; and I'm not sure if you're ready to do that yet. And if he's not cheating, all of the constant snooping will further erode your relationship.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

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Here's a good article about trying to take our mind off of your worries and living in the moment:

http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200810/the-art-now-six-steps-living-in-the-moment


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

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Pandora

How are you doing?


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
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