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Oops, I didn't know it would be censored, that of course was, "And what are u thinking cause I was gonna see if I could move my $hit back in, but obviously not."


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he wants to move back in?!?!?!?


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only thing i can think of (really not a great advice giver) is to acknowledge the text about Tuesday and confirm the next week-end plan.

I would't even comment on the one about moving back in until oyu get some sound avice from some of the vets who are more seasoned in these types of things.

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I'm so confused! So now I am good enough for him? Did OW dump his a$$ or what?

Where's PDT???

I'm fine with him coming to get DD tonight so they can do something - she needs her daddy time. I just don't want to see him.

But I have no idea how to respond to the other text.


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Originally Posted By: courts0818

But I have no idea how to respond to the other text.


don't...not right now


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It's the rollercoaster ride Court!


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I agree with gman.. I'd avoid answering that text for right now. Just because he is showing interest in you doesn't mean you need to be jumping to answer him back.

(God how I wish I'd take my own advice sometimes!)


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Okay. I'll text to say he can pick up DD and find out the time.

For now, until I hear from others, I will ignore the other text.

WTF???????


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Just sit tight courts... I'm busy catching up on your thread.

You are under no obligation to reply immediately.

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Wait three hours, and then reply "Move back in??? It's no longer that easy."

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