Plus, whether anyone agrees with me or not, I think it's good to grab even the teeniest bit of power back from a lying, cheating, disingenuous "LYBNILWY" w.
Enabling WHAT, exactly? Her affair? She's already admitted to it, and they're divorcing. Other than downplaying the physical nature of it, I don't even see her being that deceitful.
Exposure should be done to SAVE THE MARRIAGE, early on. Immediately, swiftly and forcefully. To do it at the end, in this mindset, is only going to make him look small and vindictive to her and her family -- and even his own kids.
I don't see where the A has already been exposed to everyone. I'm sure she is blaming h for the split and using the tired old "ILYBNILWY" crap.
And yeah. go ahead and get them fired. Why not? She has already done everything she could to make him look like a fool, so what is there to really lose? Why do we protect the WAS's so much? They don't deserve it.
If he is married then exposing is not a bad option even now. Your wife may be rushing the divorce because he has mislead her on his intentions. We need to know some background on him. And not just that he is a scumbag and such.
both work together high positions in a professional atmostphere. they began divorce process together to unite i believe. ea has been exposed as something that happened after the seperation but no pressure put on her. her family will be irate with her and her bs fantasy life doesn't sit well with them. kids are all very young. i think this could definately pop her bubble
Doesn't really matter what her family is for or not.
Where did you here that the OM is getting divorced?
Remember. Married men are known for lying to their mistress about getting divorced.
If you haven't heard it from him or his wife then I would still be a little suspect.
You may need to contact his wife directly to see what she knows and her views on things. This would give you a better view of the actual facts from a good source.
