Super. Rob, thanks. I'll make the date tomorrow (Thursday), after work. All her stuff will be there. Do I set a deadline? ASAP? Let her move at her leisure?
no pressure fergie ;-) - let her pick it up when she can, you can tell her you prefer that she takes care of it soon but don't pressure her with a deadline, you just prefer sooner than later, it's just a preference remember
8. Don't blame her for leaving or pressure her to say with you, those are negatively charged actions, theyachieve the opposite of what you're trying to achieve.
there are moments when the gamma radiation wears off and I return to my normal, calm, less aggressive self (wearing torn purple pants for some strange reason), in the end I'm results oriented, this isn't a sprint, it's a marathon but you're not training to get the spouse back, you're training to get you back to where you need to be, once that happens, everything that should be in your life will be there regardless of this situation.
As for the gamma radiation, it was a crazy accident, what's a guy to do ;-)
I've changed my mind. I'm doing it today. She had some stuff stored in the garage, before I filled with her belongings. She may want it now that the weather has warmed up and even though she is supposed to contact me before stopping by, I don't want her doing a surpise stop and finding out first.
Just need to track her down and hope she calls back.
you're not training to get the spouse back, you're training to get you back to where you need to be, once that happens, everything that should be in your life will be there regardless of this situation.
I did think it would be easier once the decision had been made but alas it is proving harder for me to find myself and my voice...
Each day brings a new set of crap in my lap however I am getting better at working through it...
As the sun rises each day, I realize I am becoming a better person however seeing as I am a little on the impatient side, it takes time for me to see the changes...
As you saw last night, I am finally finding part of my voice...
Now if I could just figure out where I am supposed to fit in.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
