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Originally Posted By: Piano
is it legal? can they find out? I would find this useful too and WAH doesn't live with me and isn't being 'straight' about his A.


Depends on your state. In most states, it's perfectly legal to monitor a computer you own (or co-own), and/or to monitor your children's activity on it.

Capturing a spouse's passwords, when they "have a reasonable expectation of privacy," and then using those passwords to access their banking info, for example, is another matter, although there are legitimate defenses against that as well.

Best to check to see what your state statute is.

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It looks like I can't use it unless we both have admin rights. Back to the drawing board.


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If HE has admin rights on his computer, and he opens your e-mail and its attachment, why would you need ANY rights to his computer?

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He doesn't have admin rights. He's a users. It's a work laptop that he brings home.


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Gotcha.

YOu're right -- you'll need something else.

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Pup how the hell did you get anyone to open an .exe file?



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I didn't. I had access to our family computer, and installed eBlaster that way.

I know what you're saying, tho, Jack: how would anyone be STUPID enough to click on such a thing? eBlaster advertises that it works, and I do know that people in affairs seem to lose 30-40 IQ points, so who knows. smirk

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