Is your name on the business? That would enable you to get the records from the phone company. Is there online access with a password already set up? If not, and you are on the account, you can set it up and H wouldn't know if he doesn't ever get online.
If you have to check his phone then take a page out of Puppy's book. He learned his W's habits and when she left her phone unattended he got to it and looked through the texts. You should have a digital camera ready to go, then you can photograph the call history and check the numbers later. Plus you want the pics in case you need hard evidence.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
Pearl - I knew you'd like that. LoL He's not a sound sleeper at all. All week he's gone, dispatching drivers, assisting loading/unloading. He NEVER gets more than a few hours sleep at a time, and wakes up if you put a toe on the floor in the middle of the night.
I feel like he's built this freakin' fortress around him!
Does he not know, I am STRONG? I'll get through!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.