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It's a business phone.....where do the bills go??


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Di - Paperless - We have unlimited everything, so no need to check bills. They're paid via company cc monthly, as soon as he responds to a txt.


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Maybe take care of figuring out where he goes (tracking with a phone) first?

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Is your name on the business? That would enable you to get the records from the phone company. Is there online access with a password already set up? If not, and you are on the account, you can set it up and H wouldn't know if he doesn't ever get online.

If you have to check his phone then take a page out of Puppy's book. He learned his W's habits and when she left her phone unattended he got to it and looked through the texts. You should have a digital camera ready to go, then you can photograph the call history and check the numbers later. Plus you want the pics in case you need hard evidence.


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My name is not on the business. He had started it nine years before we met. No need... I'm not involved. But, I do welcome the checks from it! smile

I'd love to check his phone, but, since we met it's always been glued to him - he has drivers checking in from all over the US 24x7.

Maybe I should get him drunk?


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Jeff - I am working on that! smile


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I'd love to check his phone, but, since we met it's always been glued to him - he has drivers checking in from all over the US 24x7.

Maybe I should get him drunk?

sounds good to me smile


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Just a thought----and I my next suggestion would be what pearl suggested.


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Drunk is good. Is he normally a sound sleeper? If you can get at it while he's sleeping then that will work too.


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Pearl - I knew you'd like that. LoL He's not a sound sleeper at all. All week he's gone, dispatching drivers, assisting loading/unloading. He NEVER gets more than a few hours sleep at a time, and wakes up if you put a toe on the floor in the middle of the night.

I feel like he's built this freakin' fortress around him!

Does he not know, I am STRONG? I'll get through!


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
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