Did you say you took up quilting! I quilt also! Have you joined a group of quilts on the net? Are you going to classes? Need any help let me know. You can e-mail me at willow12960@yahoo.com BTW I also make baskets.
BTW, sitch on your H, you are doing good, no contact ne pursuing until the time is right. Proud of you! It's not easy!
HI..Deb..I took quilting classes..have pieces cut out...but never find or make the time to just do that..maybe this winter..I will keep your email.
Did have talk with pastor this morning...what inspiration.. she knows about the ff, as h had talked about her last year.
Pastor also said to me "So you don't want a d"? No, I said..asked if I had told h all this..no I said..she said that we need to talk...I told her I was afraid..afraid of what he would say back.
She also said that she sees that faith is important to both of us, and that because of that and our changes there is always hope to build a stronger m from that..and to exhaust all efforts before going for a d. When I said that he had trouble telling me on Halloween that I need to do something"legal"..she said that maybe he had a hard time saying "d", as this is not what he really wants...so I know I need to talk....and I feel stronger now...
H called me later in the day for small talk about some cookies I bake for his work, and I wondered if she had told him we talked...it would make my job easier if she told him that he needs to talk to me...kinda be the go between.
When your h makes comments about the d, you can use that as an opportunity to say a d is not what you want and that you will not be seeking one out legally. If a d happens it will be driven by him. Just state the facts plainly...not much more detail needed except your NO. Keep it short. He'll get the message.
