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Grace and Jack, together again.

Makes me want to break out my pirate suit!!!

: )

Might get you some play.

Thanks Grace. I am understanding NC ways much better. I will try small changes when I feel ready. I sure know killer tension.

I am a little late posting to you but just in case you don't have these links I will put them on your thread.

The resources.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1539436

This is the detach link:
http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/

Why they run:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=67406&page=1

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...6668#Post526668

Now you have all the tools to read. Let us know how your doing and if you have any questions.

Remember that in the stages of MLC it does NOT go
1,2,3,4,5,6 but can get all mixed up and repeat itself and have more than one stage at once. Depression is the key to the whole thing and it is always present!

Thanks OldPilot. I have some reading to do! I have read some of the items. Have "detachment" copied off and read religiously in the beginnings.(09)Thanks for responding!
-beastie

Thanks Jack3beans.
I will take that into consideration. I don't want to come across as controlling, so good point.